“Grieving: A Beginner’s Guide” speaks to the transformative power of grief to lead those who grieve toward a new life. Author Jerusha Hull McCormack invites us to understand that death changes us and challenges us to choose the direction in which this change will take us.

The author tackles the larger questions of grief and doesn’t hesitate to acknowledge its complexity. She often takes a both/and point of view, for example, recognizing that in some ways grief never ends and episodes of grief may occur even in the distant future. However, she also speaks of “completing” grief, in the sense of working through the difficult tasks it presents.

McCormack addresses the alienation sometimes felt by those who are grieving, brought about by a culture that places a high value on independence and happiness, and assigns worth based on the individual’s ability to attain them. This book invites us to look behind the superficial and value the experience of grieving.

In addition to discussing the profound growth that grieving can lead to, the author provides some practical information and advice. She presents a very helpful discussion of the feelings that are normal in grief in the first chapter. In chapter four, “A World Without Maps,” she provides a list of rights for the grieving person. This is a helpful guide, addressing some of the unrealistic expectations that others impose on those who are grieving.

McCormack offers advice throughout the book, and while much of it applies universally, the reader will need to assess what fits him or her.

Pathways of Hope^SM Grief Counseling Centers

Ohio’s Hospice offers grief and bereavement support through our Pathways of Hope^SM Grief Counseling Centers, which provide a variety of services to the communities we serve. Support and education are provided by a team of counselors and social workers, all with significant experience and expertise in assisting grieving children, adolescents and adults.